Have you already purchased your first vibrator? Or maybe you have one in your drawer, but you are wondering how to get started? Either way, you have come to the right place. A vibrator is not just an accessory, it is a tool for sexual empowerment, self-exploration and a satisfying and enjoyable experience. Here is a complete guide on how to use a vibrator in a pleasant and satisfying way.
Instructions for using the vibrator
Getting to know the vibrator - the first step in the journey
Before you get started, it's a good idea to understand what you have in your hands. Vibrators come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and functions, each suited to different needs. Some are designed for external stimulation only, others offer internal stimulation as well, and some combine the two.
Read the instructions that came with your product. This may not be the most exciting part, but it's important to familiarize yourself with the options, buttons, vibration intensities, and types of movements that the device offers.
Preparing personal space
Before you begin, create a comfortable and relaxing atmosphere. Turn off your phone, put on some soothing music or candles if you like, and choose a place where you can feel safe and relaxed. This is your moment, so allow yourself to surrender to the feeling.
Hygiene is also an important part of the experience. Wash your vibrator with water and mild soap (if it's waterproof) or use a wipe specifically designed for cleaning sex toys.
Start gently - it's important for everyone
The first step in using a vibrator is simply to get to know it. Hold it in your hand, turn on the vibrations, and try to feel how the movements affect you. Start with the lowest setting to avoid any discomfort.
It is best to start with external stimulation only - on the hand, arm, or stomach, and only then focus on intimate areas.
Using lubricant - the way to a smooth experience
Water-based lubricant is your best friend when it comes to using a vibrator. Apply a small amount to the vibrator and intimate area to ensure a smoother, more pleasurable sensation. Lubricant also reduces friction and enhances sensation.
Listening to the body - key to pleasure
There is no "right" or "wrong" way to use a vibrator. Every body is different, and the experience varies from woman to woman. Start with external stimulation—on the clitoris, outer or inner labia—and try to find the areas that respond best.
When you feel ready, you can incorporate internal stimulation, if that's comfortable for you. Hold the vibrator in gentle, circular motions and use different intensities to find what feels best to you.
Add variety to the experience
Don't be afraid to play with speeds, patterns, and angles. If your vibrator offers different programs, try them out to break the routine and discover new sensations.
You can also incorporate the vibrator during manual self-pleasure, use it as part of foreplay with your daughter or partner, or incorporate it into a couple's activity.
Dealing with unpleasant feelings
If you feel any discomfort, pain or irritation, stop immediately. You may need to lower the vibration intensity, change the angle or use more lubricant. If the sensations persist, check the suitability of the device for your needs or consult a specialist.
Maintenance and cleaning - for safe and healthy use
After use, wash the vibrator according to the manufacturer's instructions. Waterproof vibrators can be washed with water and mild soap, while others require the use of special wipes or a spray for cleaning sexual accessories.
Store the vibrator in a clean, dry place, in a designated bag or box, to maintain hygiene and prevent dust accumulation.
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Browse the Selfish store now and start discovering new, exciting, and empowering experiences. Because you deserve to feel good about yourself and enjoy every moment!





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